Matthew Monday: Giving to the Needy

Welcome to Day 1 of the Matthew 6 study! I’ve been working on this post for 1 week now… Looks like this will be a weekly thing. Sorry folks, less time to blog these days now that I’m working & going to school.

Anyway, it’s time to dive in! Let’s see what Matthew 6:1-4 has to say on Giving to the Needy:

Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven.
“So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.

I interpret this scripture as a good reminder of our intentions. Let’s face it, we are human. We can be selfish, prideful, and fearful when it comes to giving. I think Matthew is reminding us to a) give without any intention of receiving in return b) to bring glory to God, not ourselves and c) to do it with a cheerful and fearless heart.

Giving is a gift. We know this because Jesus gave His life for us on the cross, so that we may receive the gift of eternal life. Most importantly, we need to remember that this is the best gift to receive and give. This is the mission of Christ followers and the purpose for why we give. Through acts of service and/or tithing, we give our time & money with a hope & prayer that others will receive the gift of God {eternal life through His son Jesus Christ}. Think of it as re-gifting… Except, you’re giving this gift because you love it so much, you want others to have it {God’s love} as well.

To me, the second most important part of giving is all about the position of your heart. Which we will touch on a bit more in the Treasures discussion; Matthew 6:21, “For where you’re treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Give freely. Give without the intention of receiving in return. Matthew tells us, our reward will be given to us through our Father in heaven. Someone told me once that we can either receive our reward on Earth by man or in heaven by God. This takes patience, which is not always easy. But we serve a faithful God, and I have a feeling our reward in heaven is far greater than anything we could obtain on this Earth. When we give with a cheerful heart, God blesses us with His joy and love anyway!

Next, it can be hard to give because we are stingy beings. San Diego has the second largest population of homeless people in the nation. Upon moving here, I was shocked by all of the panhandlers with on the corners with cardboard signs. With our church, we had the opportunity to go downtown to God’s Extended Hand and feed the homeless. This was such a humbling experience for me, and my husband. For some, it’s hard to have an open heart towards the homeless. Let’s be honest, we wonder what they are going to spend our well-earned, money on. And next, why don’t they just go get a job? We work hard for our money. Well, God has spoken to my heart regarding this issue. He helped me to realize that it doesn’t matter what their situation is or how they’ll accept your gratitude. The ultimate purpose behind giving is what God is doing in our hearts, not others. So regardless of what or whom we are giving to… God is working in our hearts to reveal His purpose & blessing in our lives, and hopefully others.

After all, we (Christians) are the hands and feet of Christ. This means that God has given us the opportunity to bring life into others. Matthew is teaching us to give out of the love in our hearts, not for anybody else, but God.

Lastly, I want to add fear to this discussion. I know it can be frightening to approach someone in need. You don’t know what situation they are in or who they are. Giving to the homeless involves interaction with a complete stranger. This can be scary. But I remind myself that the Lord is my shield and protector. We have to trust that He will keep us safe, as with many other situations in life.

Failure is another element of fear. Some lack confidence when it comes to sharing the gospel. Our preacher always says, you don’t have to have a PhD to share the gospel. We are all a mess. We are human. Let your mess be your message. Take courage!

So, next time the opportunity arises, will you allow pride, greed or fear to creep in and stop you? Or will you allow the Holy Spirit to intercede and take over? How can you impact your community through giving to those in need?

I hope y’all have a blessed & fruitful day! Stay posted next Monday for my discussion on Prayer.

<3, HLMW

Feel Good Recipes

Good afternoon!

Quickly wanted to share a few delicious and healthy recipes with you from the book Feel Good Food by Giada de Laurentiis.

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A friend of mine recommended the book and let me borrow her copy over the weekend. Best believe I will be purchasing my own now! She gives excellent tips toward healthy eating while incorporating simplicity, which is my style!
All of the recipes look great. So far I’ve tried two…

(Click on the link to view recipe)

Turkey, Kale, & Brown Rice Soup

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Farfalle with Chicken, Cremini Mushrooms, and Swiss Chard

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Like I said, they are both delicious & healthy! I enjoyed shopping for the ingredients at Costco & Trader’s Joes. The recipe is easy to follow and turned out better than I imagined. It was fun to try new things like mascarpone cheese & Swiss chard. My taste buds appreciated it too ;)

*Share with a friend or enjoy leftovers for lunch the next day. It makes plenty. And the soup was actually better the next day!

Well I hope you have a healthy & tasty Tuesday! Be back later for some discussion on Matthew 6: Giving to the Needy.

Thanks for following the Healthy Life of this Military Wife!

Bon Appetite,

Breanne

Matthew 6 Study

Howdy friends!

Matthew chapter 6 is packed with wisdom….

1. Treasures in heaven
2. Giving to the needy
3. Prayer
4. Fasting
5. Judging others
6. Do not worry
7. The narrow and wide gates
8. A tree and its fruits
9. The wise and foolish builders

Over the next 9 days, I want to read and study each theme in detail.

Scripture is something I am very passionate about. I absolutely love diving into the word of God and seeing what he has to teach me, each and every day. This morning, he prompted me to share Matthew 6. He’s also spoken to my heart lately in regards to the 10 commandments… Which can easily be a blog post in itself {& another topic I would absolutely love to unpack as well}. See, this is why I LOVE the Bible. There’s so much to discover! I truly believe God designed it this way; to be endless, as it continuously draws us closer to Him; & we learn more about his character, the life he wants for us, and most of all– His unfailing love! Ahh, so amazing! Off topic.. sorry… :/

So anyway, yesterday in kid’s ministry, we reviewed the 10 commandments. Of course we all know the commandments {obviously, we learn them as a child}, but how important, and powerful they are! Part of me also feels like our society turns them into somewhat of a cliche… And the same with the Bible. It’s SO powerful and important, yet it becomes viewed in our society as a book with small print and long, confusing stories. But what a skewed idea that is!

God uses the Bible to speak to us. And although he provided us with the 10 commandments {via Moses}, he teaches us through prophets too… Like Matthew! So while the 10 commandments set a wonderful foundation to our faith, God doesn’t stop there… We have the whole Bible to discover and disciples to learn from as well.

I’m not writing about anything new here… We all know how awesome the word of God is. But I can’t help but discuss his wonders and the mysteries I discover each time that I read the Bible. So follow along with me over the next 9 days, as we learn more about Matthew 6; I pray that God will speak to your heart through this study!

What do you love about the Bible? Who’s your favorite biblical figure?

Have a blessed day and thanks for following HLMW :)

Breanne

25 Life Hacks for the Military Wife

This is awesome! And so true. Enjoy :)

My Life as an Army Wife

1. Buy a drill: Learn how to use it.

2. Familiarize yourself with resources: both military and civilian (MyCAA, Pell Grants, WIC, AER, counseling services, Child and Youth Services, etc). P.S. There should be NO SHAME in taking advantage of assistance if you need it—your husband works for the government, so if anyone deserves it—your family does!

3. Meal plan. Endless resources can be found for this on Pinterest. Ramen noodles are NOT a meal plan…like, EVER.

4. Date Night. Prioritize this with your man. Husband gone? Do yourself a favor and date night with some other wives whose husbands are also gone. It does your soul some good to get out of the house and have adult conversation.

5. Budget. Teach yourself how to make one and discipline yourself to stick to it.

6. Contingency plans…because you never know when you may have an emergency, so make some plans…

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I love food…

Hey Guys & Gals!

The past couple of days have consisted of lots of running & lots of food. The more I run, the hungrier I get. The good news is, I’m in the right place for both running and eating ;)

One of the many things I love about San Diego is the yummy food! After running 9 miles on Sunday morning, the hubby & I ventured out to Coronado Island for a little exploring. We walked around all the shops, hotel del Coronado, ate lunch at a Mexican restaurant off Orange Avenue, and then split THE most delicious cookie dough ice cream sundae at MooTime Creamery.

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Yesterday morning for breakfast, I made whole wheat pancakes. I’ve made them in the past, but they didn’t turn out so good. Well, Michael finally got on board with eating whole grains with his new weight lifting program and healthy diet ;) so I figured we could give the ww pancakes another try. The recipe was SO good, that I wanted to share with you all. I topped mine with strawberries, cinnamon, and a light drizzle of maple syrup… yum! It made great leftovers for the week also. I’ve been popping them in the micro for 30 seconds with a wet paper towel… and they’re as good as they were fresh!
Whole Wheat Pancakes

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Once I got home from work, I started on dinner. I made a homemade & healthy version of chicken pot pie. Audrey & Alex came over to eat and then we all watched The Voice. About a month ago, Michael and I went to LA for the recording of the show and made it in the 2nd row of the audience, right behind the singer’s families. It was Round 2 of the battles. Really neat experience! We’re huge fans of the show, if you can’t tell. Anyway, it finally aired last night, a month later. So we got to see our faces on TV, pretty cool right? ;)

Anyway, the chicken pot pie was delicious too! Here’s the recipe. I used 4 grilled & plain boneless skinless chicken breasts, cubed, instead of a rotisserie chicken. But do whatever works for you! Personally, I don’t like picking chicken off the bone :) I also substituted white flour with whole wheat flour for the crust.

This morning, I went to nanny for my sweet family up in Cardiff by the Sea. I got my first taste of the surfing community with a burger and steak fries at Pipe’s Cafe. It was an awesome burger and great lunch. I love my job! Here’s Mary & I fixing to dive in! Get it?

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Once I left Cardiff, I went and got my first oil change in the Jeep. The wait provided me with plenty of blogging time. ;)

I’ve been enjoying this week of no graduate course work, as I have a week break before my next class starts. I’ll start back on Monday, however then I’m off of work next week. My sister, Jenna, will be arriving to visit this weekend! So, I am currently coming up with a list of fun things for us to do. There is so much to show her & lots more yummy food to eat! I am very excited :) It’s her first visit to the West coast AND, the first time I will see her baby belly, in person. Yay!

Well, more for another day… Now go enjoy some of your favorite food!!

New Style

Howdy Friends!

So tonight at the dinner table, my husband brought a brilliant idea to my attention. It’s nothing super innovative (no offense honey), I’ve actually though of it before. But it totally makes sense and he has motivated me to actually try it out. My original plan, passion, & purpose behind this blog was to inspire others to seek a healthy life style through spiritual, physical, and mental wellness. While I still love to encourage these things and wish I could write about them all day long, I have become limited on time these days. As family & friends already know, I currently work 2 jobs (which are great, I must say– blessings for sure), I’m getting my Master’s degree online (great too, but PAPERS, PAPERS, and did I say PAPERS?!), and training for a half marathon. We’ve only been in San Diego 3 months, and I’m already back to full-speed. This is a blessing, as you can remember, I was running out of things to do in Pensacola while anxiously awaiting our big move.

Okay, so back to my husband’s idea… After catching up on the phone with multiple family members & close friends today, Michael brought it to my attention that I basically repeated the same conversation multiple times. I want to keep family & close friends up to date with what’s going on in our lives, especially since we now live on the opposite side of the country from most of them. Now Facebook is great for this, don’t get me wrong, but lately I have no urge to share day to day (and sometimes boring) information to the rest of the world. So this is the new plan…

How cool would it be for me to be able to call one of my girlfriends, my Dad, sister-in-law, etc. and be able to have day-to-day conversations without having to give a long spiel on what I’ve been doing for the past couple weeks (or let’s be honest, sometimes month!). I usually only have a couple minutes or so in the car each day to call and chat, not explain my whole life story. So, to all my family and friends out there who care to know what is going on in mine (& Michael’s) life, I will be attempting to post daily updates to my blog. They won’t always be interesting or lengthy, but at least you will be in the loop. Hopefully you agree that this is a great way to stay updated.

For the rest of my followers who I don’t know on a personal level, I will not be offended if you decide to “unfollow” my blog in the meantime. I might post an occasional faith-based story or a healthy recipe here & there (depending on how much time I have that night) but the majority will be personal and daily activities about the Watts. :)

Well, I’m already up to date with my peeps after today. Tomorrow starts a new week, so stay tuned & as always, thanks for following the Healthy Life of a Military Wife!

Good night, Bre

 

I want to see you…

This song is on my heart today… just wanted to share it with you all! We are nothing without the power of Christ.

Open the eyes of my heart lord
Open the eyes of my heart
I want to see you
I want to see you.
To see you high and lifted up
Shining in the light of your glory
Pour out your power and love
As we sing
Holy, Holy, Holy…

I hope you enjoy it and can find yourselves singing along. Praise God, for He is holy!

Also, watch this video. Warning: This little boy will melt your heart.

DIY Channing Desk & Barn Door Headboard

Howdy friends!

Today I’m going to share some DIY home furniture plans– the Channing Desk & Barn Door Headboard, as I’ve gotten some requests.

We recently moved across the country and the one thing that didn’t survive was our desk. So our “desktop” computer has been sitting on the floor for 1 month now. Well rather than buying a new one {which would be at least $100 for a decent quality desk} we decided to build one. Over the last year or so, the hubby and I have stocked up in the tools department. To be specific, we use Ryobi tools, which I highly recommend. It’s not top of the line {like Dewalt} but Ryobi tools are good quality, affordable, and it gets the job done.

Building furniture has become a hobby that my husband and I enjoy doing together. It all started last Valentine’s Day when we purchased a miter saw to build this DIY barn door headboard.  Click on the link to learn how to build this headboard designed by the Little Yellow Barn. When building furniture, you’ve got to have a plan. After this is when we discovered someone great… A lot of you may already know of her, but for those of you that don’t, let me introduce you to Ana White. We are obsessed with this lady’s DIY furniture plans. She makes it so easy with her step-by-step instructions and it becomes a joy to build furniture.

Another great source for DIY furniture plans comes from Ashley & Whitney at Shanty 2 Chic. They often pair up with Ana White to create these DIY building plans. Both have their own websites {which I’ve included in the links} and Ana White also has a book called The Handbuilt Home which you can find at Barnes & Noble, Amazon, or Indie Bound. My husband and I personally own a copy of this book and love to browse through it on the couch. Ohh what to build next!

So, this weekend we built her Channing Desk. I’m very pleased with the finished project. This desk comes with a single drawer and a single shelf which is great for storing your printer.   Ana while provide you with a list of materials that you need for each project. She will also provide you with a cut list. After you’ve purchased the materials, cut your wood, and built the desk, it’s time to sand. We used 120 grit sand paper. When you’re done, make sure to clean off all the sanding debris with a tack cloth. And now you’re ready for the fun part– the finish.

We painted the base of the desk with black latex paint and stained the top, giving it a two-toned look. First, we flipped the desk over and painted the base, but do whatever works best for you. It took us 2-3 coats of paint. Once it was dry, we flipped it back upright and stained the top. We used 2 coats of Special Walnut followed by 2 coats of Weathered Oak. Both of these are Minwax stains. Allow for drying time between each coat of stain. The fun in building furniture is picking out the stain color. Be selective and maybe try out a few of your favorites on a scrap piece of wood before starting. After you finish staining, you’ll want to use at least 3 coats of polyurethane to protect the surface. It took us 1 day to build the desk and 3 days to paint/stain.

I paired this desk with the Jackson Metal tub chair from World Market. Post your finished project under Brags on Ana White’s website. Here’s our brag on the Channing Desk.

I hope this helps you to discover DIY furniture and that it brings as much joy to your home as it has to ours. There’s nothing like the feeling of a finished project!

& as Ana always says, Happy Building!

DIY BARN DOOR HEADBOARD & CHANNING DESK

DIY BARN DOOR HEADBOARD & CHANNING DESK

CHANNING DESK

CHANNING DESK

Recipes for Runners

Today I want to share a few healthy Recipes for Runners.

Over Christmas, my husband and I relocated from Pensacola, FL to San Diego, CA. On our road trip West, I started researching some things to do in our new area. I then found the La Jolla Half Marathon which occurs annually in April. With the New Year being just around the corner, we figured what better time to start training and get into shape than now?! So my husband and I both signed up. This will be my first half marathon, however my husband completed his first in April 2013 at Pensacola Beach. I was the cheerleader at his last race, but now it’s time for me to get off the sidelines!

La Jolla Half

I am not a very good {nor fast} runner. But I believe that I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength {Phil 4:13}. Including this half marathon… BUT it won’t come easy. There’s always a challenge to overcome!

Cramps {and sinuses} are my worst running enemy. When I want to push harder during my run, my cramps push right back at me. So after numerous runs ending in frustration, I started googling for solutions. I figure it’s either a) I’m dehydrated or have an empty stomach b) I’m still full from meal time c) a weak core and/or d) not eating the proper foods.

To avoid both a & b from happening, I’ve tried to find the right time of day to go run. The best time for me is either first thing when I wake up {with maybe a light snack} or about 2-3 hours after meals. To help with c, I’ve been doing cross-training workouts {yoga, spin, barre, etc} to help strengthen my core and abs. And for d, I found this delicious recipe and some other recommended foods for runners. A big thank you to Runner’s World! They have excellent info & resources for runners.

Beef & Vegetable Stir-Fry over Brown Rice

Freezing the beef for 20 minutes will make it easier to slice. The beef then marinates while you prepare the remaining ingredients, steam the broccoli & carrots, and make the rice.

Serves: 4

Ingredients:
3 tablespoons reduced-sodium soy sauce
1 tablespoon rice vinegar
1/4 teaspoon crushed red-pepper flakes
12 ounces trimmed boneless beef top round, cut across the grain into thin slices, slices cut into 1″ bite-size pieces
1 stalk broccoli, cut into small florets
1 cup carrots chips
1/3 cup reduced-sodium, fat-free chicken broth
1 tablespoon cornstarch
2 tablespoons peanut or canola oil
3 cloves garlic, thinly sliced
1 teaspoon ground ginger
1 large red bell pepper, cut into thin strips
2 tablespoons unsalted cashews {optional}
1 bag instant brown rice

Directions
1. In a medium bowl, combine the soy sauce, vinegar, and red-pepper flakes. Add the beef and toss to mix. Let stand at room temperature for 30 minutes.
2. Meanwhile, place a steamer basket in a large pot with 2″ of water. Bring to a boil over high heat. Place the broccoli and carrots in the basket, cover, and steam for 6 to 8 minutes, or until crisp-tender. Remove the broccoli from the steamer and rinse briefly under cold running water. Set aside. {Can also cook together in a steamer for 13 minutes}.
3.Drain the beef, reserving the marinade. Mix the broth and cornstarch in a cup.
4. In a large, deep nonstick skillet, warm 1 tablespoon of the oil over medium-high heat until hot but not smoking. Add the garlic and ginger. Stirfry for 30 seconds, just until fragrant; do not brown. Add the drained beef strips and stir-fry about 2 minutes, or just until no longer pink; transfer to a clean plate.
5. Add the remaining 1 tablespoon oil to the skillet. Add the bell pepper and stir-fry until just crisptender, about 2 minutes. Return the beef and any juices, the reserved marinade, and the steamed broccoli/carrots to the skillet. Toss to mix. Stir-fry about 2 minutes, or until heated through. Stir the cornstarch mixture again; add to the skillet and cook, stirring, until the mixture boils and thickens. Remove from the heat and sprinkle with the cashews. Serve over the rice.

Nutritional Facts per serving:
CALORIES 416 CAL
FAT 17.1 G
SATURATED FAT 4.3 G
CHOLESTEROL 34 MG
SODIUM 558.3 MG
CARBOHYDRATES 39.5 G
TOTAL SUGARS 2.8 G
DIETARY FIBER 5.3 G
PROTEIN 26.4 G

Recipe for Runners

My husband & I highly enjoyed this meal. I hope this recipe gives you fuel for your run {& WITH NO CRAMPS}!

Here’s some other recipes by Runner’s World that you might enjoy…
Dress your Pasta with Fresh Produce & Bacon
Slow Cook some Buffalo Chicken Lettuce Wraps
Spice Up Dinner with Cajun Shrimp
Celebrate with a Frito Pie Burger

And for your shopping cart… click here for The 15 foods runners need every week for good health and top performance.

Remain in the Vine

The Vine & the Branches

I love to share God’s word. If I were a man, I would probably be in seminary school by now. I’m so eager to learn more about God’s heart and I find so much joy in sharing His love. At this point in my life, I feel that blogging is the best way possible to share my passion. My ultimate goal in life is to write a devotional book for military wives. Many of those books have changed my life, so I want to be able to do the same for others. But in the mean time.. I’m back to blogging. After all, I’m still growing as a Christian, a writer, and a military wife. Some of my other passions are cooking and crafting {the other part of this blog}, but I often find my heart wanting to share the good news of Jesus Christ.

Most of the time when I share a scripture, I feel no need to follow up with discussion or commentary. The words are just so pure, true, and speak for themselves. Other times, I find a scripture that has so much meaning behind it. This is one of those scriptures. It is so much fun to think about what God is trying to teach us in these words. And I love when he uses metaphors.. The Vine & the Branches is such a beautiful way to make comparison of the relationship between us and our Heavenly Father.

While I am sure there are many interpretations of this scripture, I am going to share what the Lord has spoken to my heart.

Remain in the Vine {the Father}. Our Heavenly Father wants to build a relationship with us. As Christians, we do this through reading His word, seeking obedience and offering prayer.

If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you. This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples. As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father’s commands and remain in his love.  John 15:7-11

He wants to discipline us, let Him. We have areas in our life {branches} that need growth {fruit}.

I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful.  John 15:1-2

In the midst of a trial, whether it be finances or relationships, I reflect back on this verse from John 15. It makes me think of all the work Jesus has put into my life. I think of each and every branch He has cut off of me, from the time I gave my life to Him. {That is a pretty big pile of sticks!}. I’ve realized that when a conflict arises in my life, it’s only a character flaw that God is trying to fix. I think this verse is trying to say that we are all sinners and God wants to fix us. God wants the best of us, for His glory. He wants us to be the best that we can, so that we can bring honor to His name. And let’s face it, we all have plenty of branches that need some trimming. We all fall short of the glory of God. But don’t let that discourage you. Take it as motivation to be better for God.

So the next time you face a challenge in your life, pause and reflect on John 15. Instead of pointing to others or whatever the situation may be, reflect back on your life. Is God trying to show you something? It may be time to rid yourself of a dead vine in order to bear fruit on another.

I hope you have a fabulous Tuesday afternoon!

God Bless